I am in a deep dilemma... Living in this Indian society is highly difficult and its taking a toll on my mind and my health.... I know the reason but cannot help it.....Hence, I am highly frustrated and I am venting out my frustration in one or the other way...
The story goes like this....
I am into this relation for around one and a half year...when it started my parents were after me fro getting married... We both took our time of around ten months and told our respective families about it... The boy and his family are more than happy but my parents are not happy at all although they have agreed to the same because of my rebellious nature... But I can understand that theyu are right and have enough reasons to justify their actions.
I am a typical Hindu from U.P. and they are of different ethnicity i.e. Bengali. The major reason for me being confused is the difference in the culture. Thhey have different way of celebrating a particular festival and I have different way. Their language, food habits and many more things are entirely different. Although my boyfreind has assured me that I can do the things in my own way as well but I know that I won't be able to do this because of his father who is very strict and stubborn regarding his culture.The guy's father is also very cunning by nature and is very hot headed. My parents are very concerned about the major adjustments I have to make. I am feeling frustrated. Now I feel I have made a wrong decision.
How to move out of this relationship??? My biggest dilemma is this. Now everybody knows about our relationship and even about or marriage. I am highly depressed.
The story goes like this....
I am into this relation for around one and a half year...when it started my parents were after me fro getting married... We both took our time of around ten months and told our respective families about it... The boy and his family are more than happy but my parents are not happy at all although they have agreed to the same because of my rebellious nature... But I can understand that theyu are right and have enough reasons to justify their actions.
I am a typical Hindu from U.P. and they are of different ethnicity i.e. Bengali. The major reason for me being confused is the difference in the culture. Thhey have different way of celebrating a particular festival and I have different way. Their language, food habits and many more things are entirely different. Although my boyfreind has assured me that I can do the things in my own way as well but I know that I won't be able to do this because of his father who is very strict and stubborn regarding his culture.The guy's father is also very cunning by nature and is very hot headed. My parents are very concerned about the major adjustments I have to make. I am feeling frustrated. Now I feel I have made a wrong decision.
How to move out of this relationship??? My biggest dilemma is this. Now everybody knows about our relationship and even about or marriage. I am highly depressed.
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