Thursday, 10 March 2011

A failed Love

Love is such a beautiful and eternal feeling that one can never describe it unless and until he or she himself has experienced it. It is the purest thing on this earth whether it exists in a form of friendship, bro-sis love, parents- child love or a girl boy love or may be the love betwen God and his devotee.

I myself cannot describe the depth of these 4 letters although I am committed in a serious relationship with a guy for past 9 months.

I am writing this blog because I want to express my disgust on how a human being becomes so helpless sometimes that it sometimes forces me to wonder whether god exists or not. Today I came across one of the shocking revelation made by one of my batchmate. Yesterday one of my friend called him up to just say a casual hi to him. But as the telephonic converstion grew, she came to know that my batchmate has started doping from past 10 days. After a little pressure, he made this revealation. Alcohol has stopped affecting him long time back.
The reason for this whole deadly scenario was that he is deeply and madly in love with a girl who is not going to be hers coz their families are against their relation. If  such is the state of my batchmate, I fear what the girl might be going through coz her parents have decided to get her married to a guy of their own caste.

Now the question arises, whether this girl be ever able to give 100 % to that other guy with whom her parents wants her to get married or will she ever be able to come out of this relation. Moreover, I am really afraid for my batchmate in case he takes a drugs overdose or if any of his organs fail or may be he turns up a psycho and god forbid he ever commits suicide.

Can parents take responsibility of the tough conditions their children are going through. I know they cannot be blamed but again the question arises, IS FALLING IN LOVE A HEINOUS CRIME?
Y dun parents come out of their age old orthodox beliefs......When their eyes will opens when these guys will do something to themselves someday.are they waiting for this day.....

God do u exist anywhere........Plz help them or eradicate this LOVE from this earth ............










Tuesday, 8 March 2011

A thoughtful Mind

This is my first blog. I have never been into writing but sometimes there should be a space for every person to talk to oneself. So here I am.

I sometimes fail to understand these different shades of life.  Sometimes I do think that I am taking life too seriously or is it the way one should lead his or her life. Life is actually so difficult or we make it so.

I used to be normal city girl. As I grew up, I was pressurized by my parents to be a topper n school, then I was being screwed to beat different competitions. Later at this stage, again I am being pressurized for a big event Marriage.

I may be too young to draw conclusions but from from my own experience, I have started believing firmly that it is the people around you who do every possible thing to make your life hell.

May be I am thinking too much but can't help it out, its a human tendency.